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ASAN protest against Autism Speaks is highly successful
Autism
Speaks Doesn’t Speak for Me
Autism
Speaks PSA "I Am Autism" faces major backlash
Autistics are the best people to help themselves
Don't Mourn For Us
The Truth About Autism: Scientists Reconsider What They Think They Know
Two
Studies
Indicates that there are Just as Many Autistic Adults as there are Autistic
Children
Why autistics hate Autism Speaks
Blogs:
Autism Prevalence Rate Catastrophizing
Autism Speaks' Poisonous Ideas
Autism Speaks - It's a Living
Brief Guide to Some Autistic Resources on Autism
Case Study in Media Coverage: The ASAN Protest Against Autism $peaks, Washington,
DC, 10/31/09
"I Am Autism" ... Awareness video by Alfonso Cuarón ... "Ransom" Reprise
Making History
Why "Autism
Speaks" Should Give Autistics a Voice
Why "Autism Speaks" Doesn't
Speak for Us
Conferences By Us, For Us:
U.K. - Autscape
U.S. - Autreat
Essays:
Why Autism Speaks doesn't speak for me
Groups:
Autistics Against Autism Speaks
Videos:
Asan
PDX Protests "I Am Autism" Video
ASAN's Elesia Ashkenazy Interviewed
Autism Speaks V1ds
How Autism Speaks COULD be spending their money that would TRULY benefit
autistic people and their families
I Am Autism
Websites:
ANI - Autistic Network International
ASAN - The Autistic Self-Advocacy Network
Autism Rules
Autube
James Williams
No Myths
Not Autism Speaks
Rethinking Autism
WHY ARE WE DOING THIS?
1. Autism Speaks talks about us without us. Not a single Autistic person is on Autism Speaks' Board of Directors or in their leadership. Autism Speaks is one of an increasingly few number of major disability advocacy organizations that refuse to include any individual with the disability they purport to serve on their board of directors or at any point in their leadership and decision-making processes. In large part due to Autism Speaks' public relations strategy of presenting Autistic people as silent burdens on society rather than human beings with thoughts, feelings and opinions.
2. They use fear and stigma to try and raise money off the backs of our people. Autism Speaks uses damaging and offensive fundraising tactics which rely on fear, stereotypes and devaluing the lives of people on the autism spectrum. Autism Speaks' advertising claims that Autistic people are stolen from our own bodies. Its television Public Service Announcements compare having a child on the autism spectrum to having a child caught in a fatal car accident or struck by lightning. In fact, the idea of autism as a fate worse than death is a frequent theme in their fundraising and awareness efforts, going back to their "Autism Every Day" film in 2005. Indeed, throughout Autism Speaks' fundraising is a consistent and unfortunate theme of fear, pity and prejudice, presenting Autistic adults and children not as full human beings but as burdens on society that must be eliminated as soon as possible.
3. Very little money donated to Autism Speaks goes toward helping Autistic people and families: According to their 2008 annual report, only 4% of Autism Speaks' budget goes towards the "Family Service" grants that are the organization's means of funding services. Given the huge sums of money Autism Speaks raises from local communities as compared to the miniscule sums it gives back, it is not an exaggeration to say that Autism Speaks is a tremendous drain on the ability of communities to fund autism service-provision and education initiatives Furthermore, while the bulk of Autism Speaks' budget (65%) goes toward genetic and biomedical research, only a small minority of Autism Speaks' research budget goes towards research oriented around improving services, supports, treatments and educational methodologies, with most funding going towards basic research oriented around causation and genetic research, including the prospect of prenatal testing. Although Autism Speaks has not prioritized services with a practical impact for families and individuals in its budget, its rates of executive pay are the highest in the autism world, with annual salaries as high as $600,000 a year.
Link to our Joint Letter Against Autism Speaks, signed by over 60 Disability Rights Groups: http://www.autisticadvocacy.org/modules/smartsection/item.php?itemid=61-------------------------------------------
Click the link below to view the full message and reply.
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Disability Community Condemns Autism Speaks
Over 60 organizations condemn lack of representation, exploitative
and unethical practices by autism organization
Washington, DC – More than 60 national, international, and local disability
rights organizations have signed onto a letter condemning the organization
Autism Speaks for exploiting those it purports to help. The letter (see center
column) was released on Wednesday, October 7 by the Autistic Self Advocacy
Network (ASAN), the leading advocacy organization run by and for Autistic
youth and
adults speaking for themselves. The letter’s signatories include the
Arc of the United States, TASH, the Bazelon Center for Mental Health Law and
the National Council on Independent Living, and it calls on Autism Speaks'
donors, sponsors, and supporters—including Toys ‘R Us, Home Depot,
Fox Sports and Lindt Chocolates—to end their support for the organization.
The joint letter highlights a pattern of behavior on the part of Autism Speaks
beyond any particular instance, but it was instigated following Autism Speaks’ most
recent fundraising video, entitled, “I am Autism”. The disability
community reacted in horror to the “I am Autism” campaign, which
presents Autistic people as kidnap victims and burdens on their families and
local communities.
ASAN held a protest in Portland, Oregon on September 26 that received widespread
local press coverage, including segments on the news broadcasts on two local
television stations, KPTV-12 (Fox) and KOIN-6 (CBS). Additional protests are
being organized for Sunday, October 11 in Columbus, Ohio, and for Sunday,
October 18 in Boston, Massachusetts. ASAN is also organizing a large protest
at an Autism Speaks-sponsored concert at Carnegie Hall in New York City on
Tuesday, November 17. Singer Bruce Springsteen and comedian Jerry Seinfeld
are headlining the concert. See the attached Media Advisory for details of
these protests.
“I am autism. I have no interest in right or wrong. I will plot to
rob you of your children and your dreams….And if you’re happily
married, I will make sure that your marriage fails. Your money will fall into
my hands, and I will bankrupt you for my own self-gain,” proclaims the
spooky announcer on Autism Speaks’ “I Am Autism” video.
Produced by Academy Award-nominated film director Alfonso Cuarón and
Grammy award-nominated songwriter/producer Billy Mann, the video premiered
at the United Nations World Focus on Autism Conference in front of a collection
of dignitaries and First Ladies and was subsequently released online on September
22.
Since then, Autism Speaks has attempted to distance itself from the video,
taking it down from its website while continuing to distribute it via YouTube
(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDdcDlQVYtM&feature=related). The joint
letter highlights three areas of unethical and exploitative behavior on the
part of Autism Speaks:
a) Its damaging and offensive fundraising tactics, which frequently equate
being autistic to a fate worse than death
b) The low percentage of money donated to Autism Speaks that goes towards
services or support for families and individuals, particularly in light of
its high executive salaries
c) The lack of representation of Autistic people themselves in Autism Speaks’ Board
of Directors or leadership
“This joint letter sends a clear message to the corporate and philanthropy
world that Autism Speaks does not speak for Autistic people or our families,” said
Ari Ne’eman, an adult on the autism spectrum and President of ASAN. “The
type of fear-mongering and exploitation Autism Speaks engages in hurts Autistic
people by raising fear and not contributing in the slightest to accurate understanding
of the needs of Autistic adults and children.”
In addition to relying on arousing fear and pity to raise funds, Autism Speaks’ video
repeats frequently referenced claims of higher than average divorce rates
among parents of Autistic children. A study conducted in 2008 by Harris Interactive
for Easter Seals in cooperation with the Autism Society of America found divorce
rates for parents of Autistic children lower than those for families with
no children with disabilities.
The video also relies heavily on the idea of rapidly increasing autism rates.
Another new study by the British Government’s National Health Service,
which was released the same day as the video, found that the autism rate among
adults (one percent of the population) is the same as the rate among children.
This provides evidence that the popular “epidemic” claim of rapidly
increasing autism incidence is likely false.
“This video doesn’t represent me or my child,” said Dana
Commandatore, a parent of an Autistic child who lives in Los Angeles, California. “Whatever
the challenges that autism may bring, my son deserves better than being presented
as a burden on society. Autism Speaks’ misrepresentation makes my life
and the life of my child more difficult.”
“Autism Speaks seems to think that parents' embarrassment at their
kids' meltdowns is more important than autistic kids' pain,” wrote Sarah,
an Autistic blogger at the blog Cat in a Dog’s World. She added, “Autistic
people deserve better than what Autism Speaks has to offer.”
The new video is reminiscent of the December 2007 New York University Child
Study Center’s “Ransom Notes” campaign that used fake ransom
notes claiming to be from an anthropomorphized disability that had kidnapped
a child. After widespread outcry from self-advocates, parents, and professionals
and the condemnation of 22 national disability rights organizations, led by
ASAN, those ads were withdrawn in just two and half weeks. The Ransom Notes
controversy was covered by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Good
Morning America, The Washington Post, and other major media outlets. ASAN
is working with the cross-disability community on a similar response to Autism
Speaks’ campaign.
“The voices of real autistic people, and of families who do not subscribe
to the presentation of their family members as something sinister and criminal,
clearly do not matter to Autism Speaks,” said Paula Durbin-Westby, an
adult on the autism spectrum in Virginia, who serves on the Board of Directors
of the Autistic Self Advocacy Network. “Our community is furious about
Autism Speaks’ continued exploitation, and we are taking action.”
About ASAN
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) is an inclusive international non-profit
organization run by and for autistic people. ASAN seeks to advance the vision
of the disability rights movement in the world of autism. Drawing on the principles
of the cross-disability community on issues such as inclusive education, community
living supports, and others, ASAN focuses on organizing the community of Autistic
adults and youth to have our voices heard in the national conversation about
us. In addition, ASAN works to advance the idea of neurological diversity
by furthering the view that the goal of autism advocacy should not be to create
a world without Autistic people. Instead, it should be to create a world in
which Autistic people enjoy the same access, rights, and opportunities as
all other citizens. For more information, visit http://www.autisticadvocacy.org.
Donate to ASAN:

Plan a protest!
Autism
Speaks Walk Calendar
(You can click on the heading of each column to sort... so if you click on
the "date" heading, it will sort the page by date)
Never Forget:
First they came for the communists*, and I did not speak out...
because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out...
because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out...
because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out...
because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me...
and there was no one left to speak out for me.
~~Martin Niemoeller 1892-1984
*For more information about this poem please click
here.
The author of the page referenced provided translation of a passage from
the 1946 publication, "Die
deutsche Schuld, Not und Hoffnung" about Niemoller :
"When Pastor Niemöller was put in a concentration camp we wrote
the year 1937; when the concentration camp was opened we wrote the year 1933,
and the people who were put in the camps then were Communists. Who cared about
them? We knew it, it was printed in the newspapers. Who raised their voice,
maybe the Confessing Church? We thought: Communists, those opponents of religion,
those enemies of Christians - "should I be my brother's keeper?" Then
they got rid of the sick, the so-called incurables. - I remember a conversation
I had with a person who claimed to be a Christian. He said: Perhaps it's right,
these incurably sick people just cost the state money, they are just a burden
to themselves and to others. Isn't it best for all concerned if they are taken
out of the middle [of society]?"
However, the persecution of disabled people began before 1933 with the sterilization
program carried out and advocated by Hitler in 1929 when he was a struggling
politician trying to rise in the Nazi party. Thousands were killed by the
sterilization processes. So, even if we take this quote as the original
thoughts of Niemoller, he was wrong on this chronology as well. In fact,
the sterilization
program began in the late 19th and early 20th century with the eugenics
movement which started in America and crossed the Atlantic.
The "Euthanasia" program was National Socialist Germany's first
program of mass murder, predating the genocide of European Jewry, which
we call the Holocaust, by approximately two years...The Martin Niemoeller
Foundation's
definitive poem fails to recognize the significant historical atrocity
against the disabled and we call upon people of conscience to recognize
that the disabled
were first targeted for a final solution... and if we are not watchful
may be the first in line for the next wave of eugenics.
Click
here to read more about the above-referenced euthanasia program.
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I AM AUTISM
Autism TRUTH from the inside looking out -
A look at the world through OUR eyes.
Something about us:
The video above was made out of short videos and texts from many autistic contributors. It was made to counteract the negative anti-autism message from Autism Speaks, and was commissioned from Autreach (with support from ASAN) by TreeHouse, a British autism-education charity. To find out more, visit www.autreach.org.uk It is fine to show it whole, use it whole, copy it and distribute it whole. But if anyone wants to just use a part of it they should ask the original creator of that part for permission (each contributor can be contacted via a URL, in the credits at the end). Hopefully, the complete short movies submitted will also be uploaded in their own right - they are all on the DVD of this, under the heading About Us.
The following letter from over 60 disability rights organizations was sent
to numerous national sponsors of Autism Speaks. Individual signatories can
show their support by signing the petition at http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/AutismSpeaks.
Please feel free to distribute this to your networks.
To the Sponsors, Donors and Supporters of Autism Speaks:
We, the undersigned organizations representing self advocates, parents, professionals
and allies in the Autism, Autistic and Disability Communities, are writing
to you to express our concern about the recent actions of Autism Speaks. Our
work is about helping empower and support people with disabilities of all kinds,
including adults and youth on the autism spectrum, and we recognize that there
are a wide variety of means towards accomplishing this goal. Yet, Autism
Speaks’ recent
choice to use fear, stigma, misinformation and prejudice against Autistic people
as a fundraising tool does real damage to people with disabilities everywhere.
The most recent example of this lack of ethics can be found in Autism Speaks’ new “I
am Autism” campaign which states, “I am autism... I know where
you live... I work faster than pediatric AIDS, cancer and diabetes combined.
And if you're happily married, I will make sure that your marriage fails. Your
money will fall into my hands and I will bankrupt you for my own self- gain...
I will make it virtually impossible for your family to easily attend a temple,
birthday party, or public park without a struggle, without embarrassment, without
pain... I am autism. I have no interest in right or wrong. I derive great pleasure
out of your loneliness."
Not only does this campaign rely on offensive stereotypes and inaccurate information
(research indicates that parents of Autistic children are not more likely to
divorce than parents of non-Autistic children), but it also does real damage
to the cause of disability rights. By choosing to portray Autistic people as
husks of real people, stolen out of our own bodies, Autism Speaks reinforces
stereotypes and prejudice against people with disabilities that have existed
for centuries and have been the source of pain, segregation and violence.
We are calling on you to end your support for Autism Speaks and to find new
ways to show your support for Autistic people and others with disabilities.
As the result of a pattern of unethical behavior and irresponsible governance,
outlined below, we believe that Autism Speaks as an organization no longer
deserves your time, energy, money and support.
Autism Speaks uses damaging and offensive fundraising tactics which rely on
fear, stereotypes and devaluing the lives of people on the autism spectrum:
Autism Speaks’ unethical fundraising tactics are not limited to the new “I
am Autism” video. Its television Public Service Announcements compare
having a child on the autism spectrum to having a child caught in a fatal car
accident or struck by lightning. In fact, the idea of autism as a fate worse
than death is a frequent theme in their fundraising and awareness efforts,
going back to their “Autism Every Day” film in 2005. Indeed, throughout
Autism Speaks’ fundraising is a consistent and unfortunate theme of fear,
pity and prejudice, presenting Autistic adults and children not as full human
beings but as burdens on society that must be eliminated as soon as possible.
Very little money donated to Autism Speaks goes toward helping Autistic people
and families: According to their 2008 annual report, only 4% of Autism
Speaks’ budget
goes towards the “Family Service” grants that are the organization’s
means of funding services. Given the huge sums of money Autism Speaks raises
from local communities as compared to the miniscule sums it gives back, it
is not an exaggeration to say that Autism Speaks is a tremendous drain on the
ability of communities to fund autism service-provision and education initiatives
Furthermore, while the bulk of Autism Speaks’ budget (65%) goes toward
genetic and biomedical research, only a small minority of Autism Speaks’ research
budget goes towards research oriented around improving services, supports,
treatments and educational methodologies, with most funding going towards basic
research oriented around causation and genetic research, including the prospect
of prenatal testing. Although Autism Speaks has not prioritized services with
a practical impact for families and individuals in its budget, its rates of
executive pay are the highest in the autism world, with annual salaries as
high as $600,000 a year.
Autism Speaks excludes the people it pretends to represent: Autism
Speaks is one of an increasingly few number of major disability advocacy organizations
that refuse to include any individual with the disability they purport to serve
on their board of directors or at any point in their leadership and decision-making
processes. In large part due to Autism Speaks’ public relations strategy
of presenting Autistic people as silent burdens on society rather than human
beings with thoughts, feelings and opinions, Autism Speaks’ governance
policies are deeply unrepresentative and out of step with the mainstream of
the disability non-profit community.
Contrary to the “I am Autism” video, which equates autism with
AIDS and Cancer, autism is not a terminal disease. It is a disability, one
that comes with significant challenges in a wide variety of realms. Yet the
answer to those challenges is not to create a world in which people are afraid
of people on the autism spectrum. The answer is not to create a world in which
the word autism is met with terror, hatred and prejudice. It is to work to
create a society that recognizes the civil rights of Autistic people and others
with disabilities. It is to work to create a world in which people with disabilities
can benefit from the supports, the services and the educational tools necessary
to empower them to be full citizens in society.
We are Autism’s true voice – Autistic people and those with other
disabilities ourselves, and our allies, family members, friends and supporters.
Autism Speaks does not speak for us. We are not stolen – we are right
here. Our lives may be difficult – but they are worth living. Autism
Speaks Does Not Speak For Us and we will not work with an organization that
relies on damaging and offensive stereotypes to advance an agenda out of step
with those they purport to represent. We call upon you to recognize this and
find better avenues for your admirable desire to support Autistic people and
our families. We call upon you to end your support for Autism Speaks.
National and International Organizations:
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network
Self-Advocates Becoming Empowered (SABE)
The National Council on Independent Living (NCIL)
ADAPT
TASH
The Arc of the United States
Disability Rights and Education Defense Fund (DREDF)
The National Youth Leadership Network (NYLN)
Autism Network International (ANI)
The Autism National Committee
Little People of America (LPA)
Not Dead Yet
The Bazelon Center for Mental Health Law
National Coalition for Disability Rights/ADA Watch
The Autistic Spectrum Partnership In Research and Education (AASPIRE)
Mothers From Hell 2
The Center for Self-Determination
Disability Rights Advocates
Kids As Self-Advocates (KASA)
Service Dog Central
MHONA International
The National Empowerment Center
Disabled Youth Collective (DYP)
The National Coalition of Mental Health Consumer/Survivor Organizations
Feminist Response in Disability Activism (FRIDA)
The
ICORS Asperger’s Listserv
International:
Autistic Self-Advocacy Network-Australia
Autism Rights Group Highland (in Scotland, United Kingdom)
The Autistic Community of Israel
Autreach IT in the United Kingdom
The Southwest Autistic Rights Movement (SWARM) in the United Kingdom
The London Autistic Rights
Movement (LARM)
The Aspergers Network in the United Kingdom
Local, State, and Regional Organizations:
ADAPT-Montana
The Center for Disability Rights in Rochester, NY
The Regional Center for Independent Living in Rochester, NY
The Michigan Disability Rights Coalition
The Institute for Disability Access in Austin, Texas
The Maryland Coalition for Inclusive Education
The Paraquad Center for Independent Living in St. Louis, Missouri
The Lonesome Doves in Pennsylvania
TASH-New England
Together Enhancing Autism Awareness in Mississippi (TEAAM)
Wesleyan Students for Disability Rights at Wesleyan University in Connecticut
Tangram in Indianapolis, Indiana
The Disability Activists Work Group (DAWG) in Oregon
APSE-Oklahoma
North Carolina Disability Action Network
Access Living of Metropolitan Chicago in Chicago, Illinois
Topeka Independent Living Resource Center in Topeka, Kansas
Disabilityworks in Chicago, Illinois
Ardinger Consultants & Associates in
Maryland
Statewide Parent Advocacy Network of New Jersey
Wisconsin Family Assistance Center for Education, Training and Support
Aspergers Young Adults of North Alabama (AYANA)
Access to Independence of Cortland County, Cortland, New York
Youth Power, New York
The New York Association on Independent Living
Self-Advocates As Leaders (SAAL) in Oregon
Green Country Independent Living Resource Center
Elementary Inclusive Education Program at Teachers College, Columbia University
Beyond Compliance Coordinating Committee at Syracuse University
Green Mountain Self-Advocates in Vermont
Advance Youth Leadership Power in Chicago, Illinois
... Ari Ne'eman, President The Autistic Self Advocacy Network http://www.autisticadvocacy.org info@autisticadvocacy.org
732.763.5530
Letter from a mother in response to Autism
Speaks - It's a Living:
Thank you for posting this information about Autism Speaks' impressive generosity
. . . to its staff, bankers, and PR people. It doesn't surprise me that Autism
Speaks shovels piles of money at their executives and their Park Avenue rent.
In 2005, I personally found out just how eager they really are to help the families
they claim to raise money for.
Our family was displaced by Hurricane Katrina and lost half of our household
goods in the flood, including a car. We evacuated to New England, where we
had some relatives, but we were otherwise completely isolated from everyone
we knew. I searched online to try to find out what happened to a New Orleans
friend, another parent of a child with autism. I was thrilled to find her mentioned
on a page for "AutismCares," a project that Autism Speaks was asking
people to donate to, so they could help families like ours who were homeless
and trying to help our children with autism cope with all the upheaval. The
website was featuring my friend, who was supposed to open a school for kids
with autism, but Katrina hit the city on the day it was to open, and the school
building was totally destroyed. Give to AutismCares, the site asked, so we
can help deserving people like this.
I sent an e-mail to the contact person listed on the site, asking them to
forward my contact information to my friend, so we could provide each other
with emotional support. I also applied for some assistance because we were
about to move back to New Orleans from Massachusetts. I spoke on the phone
with an AutismCares woman who wanted to know exactly how much money we were
requesting, and what it would be used for. She would have to be able to justify
the expenses to her boss, she said, so she would need us to fax her an itemized
estimate before they could even consider sending any funds.
We had to get a trailer hitch for our car because we were going to tow a small
trailer with goods that family friends had donated, so that we could start
over. We knew from many summer trips back and forth between New Orleans and
the relatives' house that the drive would take 2 1/2 days (driving 8-10 hours
a day), so we were hoping that AutismCares could help us pay for two motel
nights--we're not talking about the Hilton, mind you. Comfort Inn, Quality
Inn. All in all, we were only asking for about $300.
The AutismCARES woman I spoke to took the most uncaring tone of anyone I had
dealt with so far, and I'm comparing her to FEMA operators and Red Cross operators,
two other organizations that were supposed to help us, but didn't, despite
hours spent on the phone and multiple calls. The AutismCARES lady implied that
we had no right to be hauling anything across country. If we had so much stuff,
we couldn't be that bad off. (The only reason we had any of these things was
because it was donated; we sure didn't have the money to replace what we had
lost. Even if we could afford it, very few stores were even open in New Orleans
yet.) She questioned why we needed to stay two nights in hotels. When I explained
that we had driven the route many times before and knew how long it took, she
told me in an exasperated voice that SHE routinely drove from Philadelphia
to Florida in 18 hours. When I said that with two young kids, one with autism,
such long days weren't really an option. Well, she said, SHE made the PA -
FL drive with two young kids AND a cat, AND she did ALL the driving.
At that point, I gave up. There was obviously no convincing this angry lunatic
that we deserved any help. From her tone, she clearly thought we were just
leeches. I had too many other things to do in order to move out from our temporary
lodgings and prepare for a cross-country drive. I couldn't waste any more time
begging for help from someone who wouldn't do anything for me but make me cry.
Only later, as we made the drive, did I realize how much shorter a trip from
Philly to Florida would be, straight down the eastern seaboard. We were going
diagonally across half the country. Just getting from eastern Massachusetts
to the far side of New York City takes most of one day. Driving from Philadelphia,
she didn't have to deal with New York at all.
Later still, after we were resettled in New Orleans, I finally tracked down
my friend, who had also made it back. We had a great reunion, and I eventually
asked her if the lovely people at AutismCares had ever forwarded my e-mail
to her. She looked like she wanted to scream. No, they had not, she said, but
that didn't surprise her. They had been using her story to promote their cause,
panhandling for donations so they could help all the families displaced by
Hurricanes Katrina and Rita, implying that they were going to provide her with
a huge donation so she could re-establish the school she had worked so long
and hard to open.
"They never gave me a cent!" she said. "Not a penny!" When
it finally became apparent that they had no intention of helping her, she had
to contact them repeatedly before they took her name and story off their website.
Autism Speaks. Appropriate name. They are ALL TALK when it comes to directly
assisting the families they claim to care about so much.
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